tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7970971491265962228.post8477251412934952018..comments2010-02-27T04:59:39.194-08:00Comments on Young Widows and Widowers: I'm touched, thank you...Lisa Iannuccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13271872957747474876noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7970971491265962228.post-72388209755670622432008-01-01T19:59:00.000-08:002008-01-01T19:59:00.000-08:00Lisa,I love your blog. I lost my husband Joe on Ju...Lisa,<BR/>I love your blog. I lost my husband Joe on July 2nd to cancer. We had just gotten married in March(we moved the wedding up from 7/7)and my heart as you know has a big hole. All the topics you mentioned would be great to hear your thoughts and experience. We can all learn from them. I'm very fortunate to have a very loving huge family who has embraced my family.<BR/><BR/>I am very happy to start a new year full of new memories and to put some fun back into my life. It's what I miss the most is the laughter we had every day.<BR/><BR/>Thanks again for putting your blog together, Happy New Year to you and all your readers!<BR/>NancyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7970971491265962228.post-16435851878871706052007-12-30T11:28:00.000-08:002007-12-30T11:28:00.000-08:00Kim,I thoroughly understand your comment about the...Kim,<BR/><BR/>I thoroughly understand your comment about the rings. I removed my wedding band 6 mos after my wife passed. It left such an ampty feeling (never removed it in all the years we were married). Both bands were in a jewelry box for 3 years until a few months ago when I put them both on my neck chain along with the small cross that was there originally. Never felt better!Philippehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04391220633048306097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7970971491265962228.post-1316216650451647232007-12-29T11:19:00.000-08:002007-12-29T11:19:00.000-08:00How to deal with in-laws,yes that would be a great...How to deal with in-laws,yes that would be a great topic, one which i feel have not been well-addressed. I dunno how to deal with mine. Things hasn't been well and i don't think i could deal with the extra pressure from them.<BR/><BR/>Also is it normal not to go to the cemetery at all? I have only been to my husband's once and i did not go on the anniversary of his death nor on Christmas day. I just dunno what to do when i am there. i could not talk to a grave. To me he is still well and alive in my heart where i could tell him whatever i am thinking as and when i wanted to. So when i read your post about visiting Jeff's grave, i thought maybe i had been too extreme. Was I?annerayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00697203946912727540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7970971491265962228.post-57172026581466368622007-12-28T18:39:00.000-08:002007-12-28T18:39:00.000-08:00Lisa~Oh, the rings! I've been practicing not wear...Lisa~<BR/><BR/>Oh, the rings! I've been practicing not wearing them; but I just can't do it yet. I just don't know if I'll ever be able to. I don't want to be alone but I don't want anyone else. How not to be hard on yourself. Anything and everything; just to know there are others and I'm not alone in all of this. Even though everyone's journey is different...kim-dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11650811256788756378noreply@blogger.com